Devote yourselves to prayer, keeping alert in it with an attitude of thanksgiving. Col. 4:2

Monday, May 5, 2014

Benefits of Believing Romans 8:28


We say we believe Romans 8:28, one of the most familiar promises in the Bible.  But a question then comes to mind:  if I truly believe this promise, would I allow my mind to stay in worry and/or fear?  How would it help us believe this promise more fully by pondering the benefits that come when we do? 
This is a list complied as we met to mine the nuggets of truth found in Romans 8:28.  It is by no means an exhaustive list and it would be great to add more so feel free to add your insights. 

What will happen if I believe that God is working all things together for the good of those who love Him?
      1.       It will free me from the temptation to blame/condemn someone or something else.

2.       It gives me an opportunity to praise God as I look back to see what He did.

3.       It provides an opportunity to share with others what He has done; whether a witness to the unbeliever or an encouragement to the believer.

4.       It reveals God’s power and sovereignty.

5.       It provides a training opportunity for our children.

6.       It prevents or overcomes bitterness.

7.       It strengthens my faith as I trust Him.  “Look at your life situation.  Then look at your powerful and redemptive God and the promise of Romans 8:28.  When you do, you have another decision to make – a decision of faith – to put your trust in God and believe that the end will be good regardless of how life looks or feels in the present.”  Elizabeth George in Loving God with All your Mind. 

8.       We have peace and hope.

9.       We can move forward in boldness and confidence.

10.   God uses it to develop godly character as He conforms us to the image of His Son.

11.   Guides us into acceptance of the situation.

The testimony of the prolific hymn writer, Fanny Crosby, demonstrates her belief in this promise.  This is what she said regarding the doctor who caused her blindness.  “Although it may have been a blunder on the physicians’ part, it was no mistake on God’s.  I verily believe it was His intention that I should live my days in physical darkness, so as to be better prepared to sing His praises and incite others to do so.”
We can see many of these benefits demonstrated in the life of Fanny in reading her testimony.  It challenges me to walk by faith (in this promise) and not by sight, (what the situations looks like). 

Thursday, April 24, 2014

Two heads (or more than two) are better than one! Question for open discussion

The discussion that rose from our last TLC meeting about what it means to be a "Pollyanna" and the appropriate level of an optimistic outlook on trials and challenges was thought-provoking, rich, and meaningful, and thoroughly enjoying!

So when a question began percolating in my mind the other morning after reading a devotional, I thought, I know just the group of ladies to ask for insight and explanation!  Please allow me to pick your brain, and please, comment freely!

The classic daily devotional, Streams in the Desert, says (and I have heard it phrased slightly differently and other variations of the thought many other times):

 "We all know how impossible it is to rescue a drowning man who tries to help his rescuer, and it is equally impossible for the Lord to fight our battles for us when we insist upon trying to fight them ourselves.  It is not that He will not, but He cannot.  Our interference hinders his working."


Why would a Christian ever say that we hinder God in any manner?  Can man ever hinder God or be in His way?  What are we saying when we say things like that?  Surely we're not saying anything is impossible for God, or that He cannot do something.   It would be like saying that the tiniest black sugar ant in my kitchen hinders me from doing the dishes.
 
Ladies, what do we really mean when we say that God can't work without our cooperation, or that we are in His way?

Thursday, April 17, 2014

Does God want me to be a Pollyanna?


We're familiar with the verse, For I know the plans that I have for you,' declares the Lord, 'plans for welfare and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope. (Jeremiah 29:11 NASB)  But as we explored, discussed and dissected this verse, many principles were shared, words defined and questions asked.  Indeed, the discussion was lively.  Because of the truth that God's plans are good, and He has given us a wonderful future and secure hope, the question was presented, "Do I speak of the future pessimistically or optimistically?  This lead to, "How do I respond to the doom and gloom naysayer?" Or on the other hand, "What about the accusation that someone is just a Pollyanna, viewing life unrealistically?"  Here are the thoughts that Joyce jotted down afterwards that she gave permission to share here.

I often drive home from TLC pondering the things that were shared. Last night I was thinking about what was said about being "Pollyannaish" (thanks, Jan for the thought provoking question). I began wondering if I really understood what that meant, so I Googled it (when I got home, not while I was driving!). I felt compelled to write down the thoughts that came to me. Here they are if anyone is interested in my ramblings:

Pollyannaish
From Wikipedia.com
1) someone who seems always to be able to find something to be "glad" about no matter what circumstances arise
2) someone whose optimism is excessive to the point of naïveté or refusing to accept the facts of an unfortunate situation


From UrbanDictionary.com
3) Belittling and often insulting term for being absurdly optimistic and good-hearted, believing in a good world where everything works out for the best all the time. Often in combination with being God-fearing and perceiving oneself standing on a higher moral ground than others

If we are considering definition #1, then I agree that we should, like Pam said, "be Pollyannaish about God" (thanks for sharing that Pam). We can always find something to be thankful for and should strive to focus on God's goodness no matter what circumstances arise. I agree with that wholeheartedly. I said last night that "No one would ever accuse me of being a Pollyanna," but that's not really true. One example is when one of my sister's was diagnosed with cancer I was saddened by the news, but not devastated because I was thankful that she is a Christian and I knew that God would use her and the situation for His glory (and He did). One family member did not share my view and accused me of being unconcerned and uncaring. There wasn't much I could say to change her perspective, and I didn't allow her to change mine. I did try to let her know that I really did share her love and concern for my sister.
It was something more like definition #2 and #3 that sparked my initial response as that has been more my experience. I have been both the offender of and the one offended by the attitude that is described in Proverbs 25:20, Like one who takes away a garment in cold weather, And like vinegar on soda, Is one who sings songs to a heavy heart

For many years I perceived myself standing on a higher moral ground than others, judging others as not being God-fearing because they were struggling with a circumstance in their life that saddened them or concerned them. Instead of coming alongside and "sorrowing with those who sorrow" I poured vinegar on their wounds with my patronizing words disguised as encouragement. God used my struggle with infertility to reveal this in myself, and He's still working on me.

Let me just add, so there's no misunderstanding, I'm not saying that we should condone any sinful attitudes or behaviors in others or ourselves. One missionary told me once that there is no excuse for bad behavior, but there's almost always an explanation. I'm grateful for the women who have come along side me, listened, got to know me and helped me understand why I struggled with certain areas so that I could replace the wrong thinking that was triggering them with truth. I thank the Lord for how He has progressed me; it's only by His grace. Still a long way to go though...
So, if someone was to "accuse me of being a Pollyanna" I would have to examine whether it is because they do not share my eternal perspective of hope in God, or is it because they are sensing that I do not care enough about them to allow them to share their perspective.

I appreciate all of you and how God made each one of us different. I am thankful for how God is using each of you in my life.
Joyce

Wednesday, April 2, 2014

What's Got You Worried?


Matt. 6:25-34   Our desire in this study is to understand that worry prevents us from seeking to advance His Kingdom.

I.                    Results of Worry

A.      Accomplishes nothing! (except stress, negative effect on health,  strained relationships)   V. 27 What positive or productive thing has ever been accomplished by my worries?

B.      Demonstrates lack of faith because we don’t believe what God says or we don’t trust Him.  V. 30 

C.      Shows us acting like the world which in turn affects our testimony to others.  V. 32.  Does my conversation reveal to others an attitude of worry or of trust?

 

II.                  Reasons not to Worry - What is the truth in this situation? (Phil 4:8)

A.      God is our provider (28-30) How has God provided for me recently?

B.      God knows what we need because He is omniscient.  (32)  What do you know that God doesn’t know?

C.      God is righteous (33) He will give us what is right in every sense of the word.  His way is correct.

D.     God is our Sovereign God, ruler, King (33).  What He decrees happens, what He decides comes to pass.

E.      God is our heavenly Father who loves and cares for His children.

Which attribute will help me most to meditate on in this situation that has me worried?

III.                Replacement for Worry – Instead of worrying, we are to seek His kingdom and righteousness.  (33)  How do we do that? 

How do we seek (strive for, aim for His rule)  His kingdom? 

A.       Submit to His rule and reign in our own heart.  I.e. instead of worrying about ________ I yield it to God’s desire and plan.  Elizabeth George emphasizes the importance of time alone with God in prayer to get his perspective and ordering of the day.  Her summary of verses 33 is “deal with today” in order to help us win over worry.  She gives 5 keys to winning over worry:  Prepare, Plan, Pray, Proceed and Trust God to Provide.  She shares how she used these steps in battle worry as she faced the possibility of her husband going oversees in the Persian Gulf War.  She has another chapter on how these 5 keys can help in dealing with today when you face ongoing suffering on a daily basis. (From the book, Love the Lord with All Your Mind)

B.      Desire to see His rule in the lives of others.  I.e. it might be to pray for ____ to follow God’s direction.  In other situations it might be to teach and encourage a friend to follow God’s (the King’s) way.

C.      Participation in the growth of God’s Kingdom.  I.e. personal witness (share with others how God was worthy of my trust and how He alone could meet my needs.)  Is there a way God wants me to get involved in being part of solution instead of worrying about it. 

How do we seek His righteousness? God’s righteousness is a moral correctness of thinking, feeling, and acting

A.    Correct thinking – Phil 4:8; Finally, brethren, whatever is true, ….dwell on these things.      Correct feeling – Heb. 1:9, You have loved righteousness and hated lawlessness; Therefore God, Your God, has anointed You With the oil of gladness above Your companions.”                                                                                                         Correct acting – Heb. 11:33 who by faith conquered kingdoms, performed acts of righteousness, obtained promises, shut the mouths of lions

B.      Be trained in it through His Word –II Tim 3:16 All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness;

C.      Practice it – I John 2:29 If you know that He is righteous, you know that everyone also who practices righteousness is born of Him.

Another quote by Mrs. George:  “When you being to live out the command of Matt 6:33, Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and then you begin to realize the promise of Matthew 6:33, the promise of God’s provision of all that you need… the truth that make it possible for you to win over worry- and all these things shall be added to you.”

Will I worry or will I use it as an opportunity to seek the advancement His Kingdom and righteousness?

In what situation in your life right now is God giving you that choice?

 

 

 

Monday, March 24, 2014

It's What We Think that Matters


The following is the way the Holy Spirit worked in my heart when preparing for the most recent TLC Bible study.  I hope it blesses you the way the study blessed me.  Joy Wade

Philippians 4:8&9 NASB95 Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, dwell on these things. The things you have learned and received and heard and seen in me, practice these things, and the God of peace will be with you.

The Apostle Paul is writing to the church at Philippi.  In these selected scriptures, Paul appears to be finishing up a thought, “Finally”.  What follows is a list of adjectives which are the boundaries for what one’s mind should be focused upon. In other words, if a thought or line of thinking cannot be described by one or more of these adjectives, then a believer is NOT to dwell on that.  In contrast Paul says purposefully choose to focus on thoughts that fall into these categories, letting your thinking dwell, or “live” in that place.

Obviously this is not a new concept to the Philippians.  Paul says he taught these principles to them, they understood them and they saw him practice this type of focus while in their presence. He further commands them to practice this kind of thinking. The result is that God’s peace is with the believer who chooses to dwell on this kind of thinking.  

God knows what kind of thinking will keep the believer at peace with Him and in their hearts.  He led the apostle Paul to give us a list to follow.

The parameters Paul is giving are to help me guard my thoughts so that they are in line with the thinking of Christ.  Thoughts that are true, honorable, right, pure, lovely, of good repute, contain excellence or worthy of praise are to be those parameters.  This is a practice I must choose to come back to when I find my thinking in dark, critical, judgmental, malicious, deceitful, depressing, untrue, fearful, lustful, evil or just plain lousy places.  If I am struggling to be obedient to this, I am to throw myself on the mercy of the throne of grace (Heb.4:16) and ask God to help me to have the strength to think on things He approves of.  Christ understands my weaknesses.  It’s not how many times I fail that God focuses on; it’s how many times I look to Him to pull me out of the pit I’ve fallen (or jumped) into.   

Once I’ve found victory over my thinking and am focused on Christ’s type of thinking, I need to let my mind stay there.  I dwell in a house; when the weather got so cold, the wind was blowing and the snow was falling, I chose to stay inside my house and not leave it.  Likewise, I need to keep my thinking inside the safe, warm “house” of the mind of Christ. This means keeping the door of my thinking closed to the outside influences If the thinking of the world, my sin nature or Satan tries to squeeze through the cracks, I must discipline my mind to turn my attention to thoughts that meet this criteria. There are times when I must honestly admit this is extremely difficult to do.  It is in those times that I just cry out to the Lord to change my heart and my thinking.

Paul told the Philippians to think about the example he set for them in practicing this kind of thinking when he was with them.  So therefore I must choose to be around people and learn from people who practice this in their life. Praise the Lord that He gave me just such a man as my husband, but also, I need friends who are willing to gently correct my thinking if they judge it to be distorting of God’s position. I must be willing to hear a gentle correction. (If I won’t listen to the gentle correction then I may find myself facing a harsh correction.)  I find when I seek to learn from and be around the person who practices godliness, I can be convicted where I am going astray and encouraged to follow their example of Christ centered thinking.  This takes me to Paul’s next commandment of “practicing”.

Something that must be practiced is something that is a learned habit, not a natural one.  Thus it doesn’t come naturally to the believer to think in this manner. If this is a new concept, then I’ve got to practice it. I mustn’t fool myself or allow myself to be lulled into a false sense of having “attained” it.  Satan, the world and my own sin nature never take a vacation.  They are always finding new ways to try to lead me astray in my thinking and actions. I need to often go back to the “text” book in order examine if my thinking lines up.  I need to ask the Holy Spirit to convict me of thinking that isn’t led by Him.  I need to find time to quietly listen to His leadings and convictions.  I must be willing to obey when I find Him trying to lead my thinking to the acceptable place as described by Paul.

Lack of peace, unrest, fear, grumpiness, critical “harsh” thinking, dissatisfaction with others, depression, lingering self-pity, indecisiveness on moral issues, feeling pushed, confused, discouraged, worried, obsessed or condemned are all “red flags” that my thinking is not lined up with God’s thinking.  I am in the throes of living without God’s perspective, which is tantamount to being without the peace of God.  However, the practice of this kind of thinking is going to produce in me the Peace of God and that is the peace that passes all understanding. 

These are questions for applying what I’ve learned and keeping myself accountable.

1.      Is this True?
            Honorable?
            Right?
            Pure?
            Lovely?
            Of good repute? (promoting the good reputation of my Savior)
            Excellent
            Worthy of Praise?

2.      Whose voice does it reflect?

God’s Voice   vs.  Satan’s Voice

Stills you              Rushes you

Leads                    Pushes

Reassures           Frightens

Enlightens           Confuses

Encourages         Discourages

Comforts             Worries

Calms                    Obsesses

Convicts               Condemns

3.       Am I at peace, content, courageous, assured, calm?

 

Sunday, March 9, 2014

The Greatest Commandment


Mark 12:28-34

Using the 3 Question Method, here are some possible ways the responses to the questions could look.  It is not the only way or the “right way”, but it may be helpful.
1. Who:  a scribe (lawyer) and Jesus
    What:  the scribe asked Jesus a question
    When:  in the midst of arguments
    Where:  in a group of religious leaders
    Why:  the scribe had an apparent genuine question for Jesus

Or if you were to put it in summary form, it might read:  Amidst many arguments among religious leaders, a scribe questioned Jesus.   Jesus commended the scribe’s response to His answer.

2. Command:  Jesus repeated the Old Testament command to love God with all your heart, soul, mind and strength.  (Deut. 6:5) 
Examples to follow:  scribe stated that striving to love God is more important than “doing things” for God out of duty.  Jesus example:  giving an encouraging, loving response to one seriously seeking. 

Main truth:  Jesus affirms the O.T. command that to love God with our whole being is the most important commandment of all.
What the passage reveals about God: 
            God welcomes sincere questioners who see truth.
            God is wise, supreme, truth, our authority, an encourager, King (refers to His kingdom)
            God cares about relationships:  ours with Him and ours with others.
            God wants all of us.
                
Other lessons/truths:
            Not everyone is in the kingdom of God.
            God’s kingdom is a spiritual realm.

 3. Application questions:
    What hinders me from loving God with my total being? 
 
    How can I love God more today?

    What things do I do “for God” out of duty or ritual rather than out of love?  How could I change that?

    What do I do about the questions I have about living for God?  Do I seek answers or just put them aside?

    How does my life show that God is my authority?

    Is it possible to love God without loving my neighbor?  Why or why not?

    In what relationship do I most need to show love?

    Who can I encourage in their spiritual search for truth?

    What am I doing to advance God’s kingdom on earth?  Or do I spend more time trying to advance my own kingdom than His?   

 

 

 

 

Friday, March 7, 2014

Three Question Bible Study Method




This method can be used whether you have 10 minutes or 10 hours! Determine the amount of scripture you will cover based on the amount of time you have.  The intent is not a deep scholarly study, but devotional in nature.  But it certainly can be a springboard for deeper study!

Begin by praying and asking the Holy Spirit to lead your study time and to open your spiritual eyes and ears so He can teach you what you need to learn through the passage you are about to study.

Read the passage.
 
Write down your responses to the following three questions.

 1.  What are the core facts in this passage?

            Who? What? When? Where? Why? How? (All of these may not be answered in the passage.)
 
            In Summary:  Write down the facts OR a brief summary of the facts of the passage.

 
2.  What are the life lessons I can learn from this passage?

            Look for a warning, a command, or a promise.

            Is there an example to follow or not to follow?

            What is the main truth or principle of the passage?

            What does the passage reveal about the character of God? (His attributes, ways of relating to people, emotions, views about something, reasons to love Him more, etc.)

            Not all of the above examples will be in every passage. These are only suggestions to help you get started.

             In Summary:  Write down the lessons/truths that you find in the passage.
 

3.       What are some application questions that will help me apply these lessons?

Look back at the facts(Q1) and the lessons (Q2).

Write down any application questions that help you apply this lesson to your life,   NOT yes/no questions. 
 
           Write down your response to the questions.
 
What you have observed and the lessons learned lead to and flow beautifully into prayers of praise, thanksgiving, confessions and intercession.

 

 

 
 

Friday, January 3, 2014

New Year's Resolution With Eternal Value

"The more we let God take us over, the more truly ourselves we become - because He made us. He invented us. He invented all the different people that you and I were intended to be. . .It is when I turn to Christ, when I give up myself to His personality, that I first begin to have a real personality of my own."
C.S. Lewis 

My New Year's Resolution, which I'm starting this week  , is to find out more about who I am in Christ, just how valuable I am to God, and why I am just the way God intended me to be. After all, if I have a willing heart it's God's job to refine me. Let's all make it a point to spend more time learning and focusing on our worth in Christ and less time comparing ourselves to the world's standards.

Remember the work He's already accomplished in us, His Word calls it good! That's coming from God, who knows what some thing good is. The work He still needs to accomplish in us, He is full of grace and patience to do so...He gives us a whole life time. Keep your eyes on that truth and not the lies Satan throws at us that we're not valuable.

Philippians 1:6 (NASB95)
6 For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus.