You might answer that question a hundred different
ways: pizza, chili, peanut butter and
jelly sandwiches fried chicken, to name a few. What if the question read, “what
words did you feed others today”? The
first part of Proverbs 10:21 says, the
lips of the righteous feed many… Let’s
consider for a moment the food that can come from our lips which bring nourishment
to the soul and spirit.
God’s words: the most important words we could ever share,
whether an actual quote or sharing a scriptural principle.
Words of praise (versus
flattery) focus on the character or right conduct of the individual. That was very kind of you to run that errand
for me. Your honesty was a good example
and challenge to me. God tells us to
build up one another, (I Thes. 5:11)
which means to promote growth in Christian wisdom, affection, grace, virtue,
and holiness. Praise does that.
Words of appreciation: when we express gratitude to another we acknowledge
how their kind word or deed was valuable and blessed us.
Words of truth
develop and promote a trusting relationship.
Coupled with love, (Eph. 4:15), they provide a gentle correction when
appropriate, or a different focus when “they can’t see the forest for the trees”.
Words of
encouragement are needed by everyone at times. We urge
you, brethren, admonish the unruly, encourage the fainthearted (discouraged),
help the weak, be patient with everyone…I Thes. 5:14
Words of prayer: a true gift whether offered for them or with
them.
Let’s go back to the verse we began with and look at the
last word, the lips of the righteous feed
many…, Our words have a ripple effect and can touch and bless many lives - now
and in the days to come.
So what are you going to serve up today? Make it a bountiful buffet of praise,
appreciation, truth, encouragement, prayer, and scripture(God’s words), that
will satisfy the pickiest eater.
